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Why wait a month? The answer may surprise you. It has nothing to do with any moral issues, and it's not about playing hard to get. It's about chemistry. Brain chemistry.
The Love Drug When women have sex, a chemical called Oxytocin is released in our brains. Scientists refer to it as the *Cuddle Hormone.* Why? Because it causes the affected person to get all sorts of mushy, googly, nesting romantic feelings. So what happens if you have sex too soon? A guy you thought was just so-so yesterday suddenly becomes Mr. Fabulous once you've had sex with him. Did he stop ending jokes with *get it?*, picking his nose or talking incessantly about his mother/pet iguana/job at the post office? No. The difference is sex. Doped up on Oxytocin, it's much more difficult to judge whether or not he's someone we really want to be with through the haze of googly-moogly romantic emotion. |
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The joke about her watching the Flintstones for knowledge is GUTSY and CONFIDENT.. and FUNNY. Everything you do with a woman, must be combined with conveying that you are the most desirable man on the planet- confident, popular, successful, and worthy of trust. This does NOT mean to lie. It means to put your BEST FOOT FORWARD, through all the SUBTLE yet crucial nuances that convey you are the BEST. Listen, women prep themselves for HOURS with make-up themselves look the BEST that they can. Actually, it makes them look BETTER than they are, But nobody ever accuses women of being deceitful by wearing sexy clothing and makeup. If you are going to give a compliment to a woman, or if you are going to give trust to a woman, do it through the prism of being the most desirable man- i.e. let her EARN it from you, and then believe me, she will value it far more, since it came from someone who is selective. Okay, number three, establishing the connection. |
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A woman cannot HELP but feel attraction when you activate all the behaviors and cues that TRIGGER attraction!! And unless you display these cues, nothing else on earth will make one bit of difference.
PRIMAL sexual attraction is not stimulated by getting a woman to CONSCIOUSLY THINK about who she should be with. It's not activated by *good judgment*. So forget about trying to appeal to a woman's sense of *good sexual judgment*. When men try to appeal to her sense of good judgment, they are trying to appeal to something that does not exist. It's totally beyond all rational thought. The problem is that what nature gave for women as *a sense of good judgment in guys* was actually designed for an environment that no longer exists. |
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